We all would like to live in a world where there is no fighting or violence, but the truth is that in Australia currently, at least one woman dies from domestic violence a week. Often domestic violence is kept secret within the walls of the home, with family and friends unaware. We must be more educated and socially aware to offer support and help people suffering this danger. Victims should not feel ashamed and know that there is support available to help them change their circumstances.
The purpose of this article is to inform people that there are difficulties in leaving a violent relationship and that there needs to be thorough care taken in planning to leave. This is where a safety plan is needed.
A safety plan is when a victim creates a safe strategy to leave a relationship where they have been victim to domestic violence. When there has been abuse in a relationship it is difficult for the victim to just get up and go, and they need to prepare a step by step plan to minimise harm.
When looking to leave and enact a safety plan, close family members and friends should be consulted. Victims should discuss the circumstances they are facing in their relationship and life.
Victims and people supporting victims must remember that domestic violence and family violence are never okay. Victims must be reminded that they do not have to tolerate the continual domestic violence. They should feel empowered with the right support to take back control of their life and know that they do not have to tolerate the fear and intimidation that has been present in their relationship; that they can leave and do not need to feel guilty.
People in this situation should consider the following when creating a safety plan:
If you know someone who is victim to a domestic violence or family violence relationship, encourage them to seek help, there are many avenues of support and assistance available. There are also many resources and information readily available online.
It is important that victims feel well supported and empowered to leave. It is okay for them to leave a dangerous relationship, and they do not need to keep living in that environment.
Frank Law is able to assist you in the development of a safety plan, and guide you through the proceedings if you choose to seek legal protection. Contact our Family Law team on (02) 9688 6023 or email aharrold@franklaw.com.au
Phone:
1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) - The National Sexual Assault, Domestic Family Violence counselling service for people to discuss their circumstances and receive help.
Website:
NSW Family and Community Services - information about safety planning, domstic violence and legal assistance to support victims.
Lisa Harnum Foundation - a community service for women in the Hills, directing them to transitional housing, counselling and safe rooms, among other ways to help.
NSW Justice and Atorney General worksheet - general information and guidance for safety procedures
This is not legal advice.
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